Stop! [ she's getting restless just talking to him. in a way he reminds her of a lot of people back home, both people she knows well and soldiers that may as well be faceless. ]

Losing something, everything, doesn't eliminate the possibility of happiness for the rest of your life! [ it's Sun Quan and Sun Ce after their father's death. it's her husband after Sun Ce's death. it's any number of them after they lose people and a battle. it makes her want to smack something. it occurs to her that she has no idea how she ended up talking like this to a relative stranger. ]

I'll prove it to you.